Self - Interest

When a lover herself realizes/feels that a man loves her more than she loves him [ realizes/feels is important because in this particular case, any effort to express it explicitly may fall under the realms of pretentiousness.Also it seems for abstract concepts, and certainly for the abstract concept such as love, any explicit verbal outpour or description may not do justice to that aspect of abstract thought and may, inadvertently, take some shine off it [ poetry comes close and sometimes even manages to fill this descriptive void beautifully, but precisely because it is abstract in its own sense]].

Coming back, through this realization, what the man has, possibly, essentially tried to convey is to tell her to keep on loving him, or not to stop loving him or maybe to love him even more.

Can we ever then say then that such a sense of self - interest is wrong or even subjective and is it really wrong to hope only such a sense prevails in society,for all matters. For is it not that when each individual follows this in its purest sense, he will ultimately be only contributing to the good, which society may well do with.